Just kidding. Actually, please call me Karin. My name isn’t pronounced “care-in.” It is actually Scandinavian (Norwegian) and is pronounced, “car-in.” (Stress is on the first syllable.)
Though it is simply put phonetically, many people struggle with saying it.
I don’t particularly mind when people misspeak, but I do try to help them be more comfortable calling me by name.
My father, when introducing me as a teenager, would often say to others, “Like when you drive your ‘car-in’ the garage.” Thanks, Dad.
As you can imagine, this experience as a youth scarred me somewhat. I recall even saying, “Daaaaaa-aaaaad!” in an exasperated tone.
Now I use his example.
I’ve been thinking, as I continue to work on self-love and self esteem, that maybe I do care. Maybe I do want people to say my name correctly. Maybe I do matter enough for you to make the effort to learn my name.
After all, we’re friends, aren’t we? And friends love and take care of each other, right? And they know each other’s names.